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Eve Tahmincioglu

Primary author Eve Tahmincioglu has been covering small business and entrepreneurship for more than a decade. She regularly writes about small business issues for the New York Times and BusinessWeek's SmallBiz magazine. She also writes the Your Career column for MSNBC.com. She is the author of "From the Sandbox to the Corner Office."



Male entrepreneurs are control freaks, women are wimps

Posted: Friday, January 18, 2008 5:12 AM by Eve Tahmincioglu
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Ha! Made you look.

I’m not trying to anger all of you out there, but when it comes to business, men want to be in control, while women are the nurturers and consensus builders.

I don't think that's the case in all situations, but the idea is drummed into our heads day in and day out!

Yet another survey points to just this phenomenon among entrepreneurs.

“Small business owners want to control their destiny,” says Sastry Rachakonda, director of Discover's business credit card, which polled 1000 small business owners with five employees or less in its monthly Discover Small Business Watch is a monthly survey. “However, men and women do this in different ways. For men, it is about being in control and being their own bosses, while for women, it is about having more flexibility with their time.”

The business owners were asked what was the biggest reason they became entrepreneurs and among the women polled, 32 percent had flexibility at the top of their lists, while only 17 percent said it was all about being your own boss. On the other hand, 27 percent of men put independence at the top and 24 percent said flexibility was the key.

When it came to decision-making, “77 percent of men said that they make most business decisions on their own, compared to 72 percent of women who said the same. Similarly, more women than men, 28 percent to 23 percent, allow employees and associates to participate in business decisions.”

So which one of the genders is doing it right?

There’s nothing wrong with consensus building. But sometimes you have to take the bull by its horns.

Who will be more successful? That’s the main question.

“I can't say either gender has any distinct advantages through their preferred approaches to things like decision-making and networking,” Rachakonda explains. “Success in running a small business is more about having done your homework, securing the necessary financing, setting realistic expectations, and most of all, having the aptitude to handle constant change.”

With all this talk about gender differences, the poll did find some similarities, and you’re not going to believe in what area…worklife balance.

Turns out, 81 percent of both sexes surveyed says they were balancing work and home life either “pretty well” or “very well.”

About 15 percent of those polled answered “not so well” to that question and 3 percent said the balancing act was going “badly.”

“The results seem to indicate that the vast majority of small business owners, led by their independence and flexibility, are finding the kind of time they need to spend with their families or with interests outside of work,” Rachakonda explains.

Hey, I guess that’s what really matters, no?

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I dont this article really has good information to be making the points it is trying too.

For instance the article says...

"For men, it is about being in control and being their own bosses, while for women, it is about having more flexibility with their time.”


"When it came to decision-making, “77 percent of men said that they make most business decisions on their own, compared to 72 percent of women who said the same. Similarly, more women than men, 28 percent to 23 percent, allow employees and associates to participate in business decisions.”"

That's a 5% difference on both issues, is that really a big difference? another way to look at it is that roughly three quarters of both men and women make most the decisions. Same thing as roughly 1/4 of both men and women allow employees to participate in decision making.

It just seems that the numbers are too close together and there is too much of a generalization for the headline and the points that its making. What's the error % in the polling numbers?

Anyone else?
"men want to be in control, while women are the nurturers and consensus builders."

Hogwash.  My problem with a lot of men I want to work with is that they want to have a lot of "feel good" conference calls and meetings where nothing gets accomplished but the good ol boys massaging each other's egos.  I want to quit wasting time and get stuff done.
I am sick and tired of working for other women! It always ends up being just like high school where the pretty and popular girls run the show and the awkward girls get left out. When men are in charge, I always know where I stand - very straightforward. But when women are in charge, it's all about back-stabbing and who is part of the right clique. I'm SO tired of that crap.
This article is dumb and contains no facts!  A five percent variance in "poll data" about decision making says nothing, except that most of us like to make decisions on our own. No big suprise there!
I think there are two issues here:
1. Who is more entrepreneurial - male or female.
2. Types of managerial styles - men & women.
I can't address #1 but I can speak from my own experience on #2. I have been in the work force for over 25 years and had a variety of managers both male & female. On the whole, I will take a male manager any day over a female because the male is much more flexible whereas a female is more attuned to the details which can lead to being a control freak over every aspect of your life.  
As a woman and a business owner I feel like I'm in control of my own life but at the same time I have more time for family and friends.(sort of)One thing I know as a woman, is that I am very easy going with Mom's that want to work during school hours only. In fact I love it. I have great ladies working and can leave in time to pick up their kids. I think women can balance things very well and are great multi-taskers.
Many men are control freaks.  I steer clear of them in business and in my personal life.  What educated, skilled, professional woman wants to have someone else, male or female, make decisions for them!  I'm a female entrepreneur, and I like to think that I'm not controlling.  I believe others have much to contribute, and encouraging them, cultivating an atmosphere of creativity and welcoming their ideas while also setting high standards is the best way to achieve high levels of success.  
Thanks for the information.  As a woman-owned, small business I borrowed from family and friends.  I leveraged every asset I had and I refinanced my home multiple times. Fortunately these creative financing opportunities allowed me to create a growing business.  Now I need additional financing to purchase office furniture and data center equipment.  In addition to SBA Loans I have found several discount office furniture businesses that will provide attractive financing on the entire package of desks and data cabinets.  I suggest you explore each one before decide to sign up for the deal.


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